Disenchanted evening

So today was weird and full of information that left me blue by the end of the day.  It was all perfectly spaced though so as not to be too overwhelming. But the sum of it all just is for lack of a better word....gross.  I will try and tell you about it without giving away identities.  I found out a local family is experiencing a very similar situation that I went through, affairs, betrayal, heartbreak and it just made me ill. What is wrong with some people???  Are they so self-centered and selfish that they cannot see the UTTER DESTRUCTION their decisions will leave in their wake? I just don't get it?  Not at all, and being on the receiving end of much of that pain makes me want to just throttle this person.
Next my fifteen year old daughter texts me while I am work that she has found out her boyfriend has cheated on her with a friend......and this was his second chance, he couldn't go a whole week without misbehaving.  It is so hard as a mother to sit back and "let" your daughter make her own decisions and mistakes when you know the outcome will most likely be heartbreak.   But there again, where are the morals? Values? Character?  For God's sake?? 
And then finally for your reading pleasure ;/ I found out something about one of my ex's who shall remain nameless but anyone who knows me will know who this is. Anyhow, he calls me quite regularly to tell me how much he misses me and loves me, crying etc.  WELL, turns out that he has been living with someone, a woman, for almost a year......not that it makes a damn bit of difference but WTH???  Does anyone remember what honesty? integrity? respect?  are anymore??  It just baffles me.
 I am the first one to admit that I am NOT perfect but c'mon.  I have learned, and some of it was the hard way, that honesty is the BEST policy.  Lies will ALWAYS come back to haunt.  Just live in the truth and deal with the repercussions then and there.  It's not always easy or fun but it's the only way that allows for peace of heart and mind.  So yes, I am feeling a little disenchanted tonight but I am sure tomorrow something will happen to restore my faith in the world.....God Bless and Good Night